Because rude behavior in children is more often the thoughtlessness than of deliberate aggression, criticism, namecalling and orders only make a child angry and defensive.
Currently, there are some advertising ethics mistakes such as one-sided pursuit of influence, deliberated distortedness and rights infraction of thinking of children and image of women.
In view of fact that both the Inquisitional System and the Adversary System are products of deliberate design, plans of constructivist rationalism are doomed to self-deconstructing.