Your columnist investigates As summer descends with a vengeance on the northern hemisphere, you may be fantasising about the promise of " working from anywhere" .
Meanwhile, the former is a high-wire act in which we fantasise generating an income from what we deeply love and yet we constantly fear penury and humiliation.
Now it's not immoral but we might fantasise about things that we'd never have-- we'd never dream of doing in real life and so pornography tends to fill that void.
We fantasise about the death of a loved one not because we truly want them gone but because being close to them is such a large and therefore at times tricky part of our lives.