subconsciously

Although Olga loved Jack, that image of wifehood (hers, not his) was so noxious that subconsciously she knew she couldn't sustain it.

虽然OlgaJack,但是这种（她产而不是他产）子形象太有毒害性，以至于在潜意识里自己知道无法维系下去。

In choosing a partner we are subconsciously assessing their evolutionary fitness to be a mother of children or father provider and protector.

在选择伴侣时候，我们会在潜意识里衡量对方将来是否会是称职母亲或者父亲，是否会是合格一家之主。